As featured on Malaya Business Insight last February 7, 2025
When we think about love, we often think of the grand gestures—the romantic dinners, heartfelt notes, or even the quiet moments of connection shared between two people. But love isn't just expressed between individuals; it’s also reflected in the spaces we inhabit. Just as our love languages reveal how we give and receive affection, our homes tell a story of how we cherish and care for ourselves and others.
For centuries, homes have been a sanctuary, a canvas, and a reflection of personality. But in today’s fast-paced world, where external influences are constantly shaping us, designing a space that speaks to your unique love language can be the ultimate form of self-expression. "Your home is an extension of your identity," says Andrew Bercasio, Principal Interior Stylist at shopITOOH. "The furniture you choose, the textures you embrace, and even the way you arrange your space reflect how you experience and share love. It's deeply personal."
Decoding Love Through Design
Just as there are five primary love languages—words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch—there are five key interior styles that mirror the way we express ourselves in the spaces we call home. Here’s how you can identify your design "love language" and translate it into a home that truly feels like you.
Scandinavian: Minimalism Meets Warmth
The Scandinavian style might be your match if your love language leans towards simplicity and thoughtfulness. Rooted in the philosophy of "hygge," or cozy contentment, Scandinavian interiors prioritize function, neutral palettes, and light-filled spaces. "It’s the equivalent of an affirming word spoken at the right moment,” Bercasio explains. "Every piece of furniture has a purpose, but there’s also an underlying warmth—soft textiles, inviting lighting, and wood tones that feel like a gentle hug." For those who cherish quiet moments of reflection or seek to create a welcoming haven, Scandinavian interiors strike the perfect balance. If you’re into a Scandinavian Homestyle, your Love Your Space Tokens include: the Rover King Bed, Value Night Table, Silvi Pendant Lamp, and Ash Wide Base Plate.
Modern: Sleek, Polished, and Unapologetic
Are you someone who thrives on clarity, precision, and a little luxury? Modern interiors could be your love language. Characterized by clean lines, bold contrasts, and minimalist decor, modern spaces exude confidence and sophistication. "Modern design is about intentionality," says Bercasio. "It’s not about excess but about showcasing the beauty of restraint—a well-placed accent chair, a dramatic lighting fixture, or a monochrome palette with a pop of color." For individuals who love expressing themselves with flair and purpose, modern interiors are a true reflection of bold self-love. Your recommended Love Your Space Tokens include: the Classic Yellow Mushroom Lamp, Yoite Carpet Rug, Willem Lounge Chair, Handcarved Wood Side Table, and Cosmic 4 Acrylic Painting.
Tropical: Nature’s Love Letter
If you feel most alive when surrounded by natural beauty, tropical design speaks your love language. This style—rooted in materials like rattan, bamboo, and lush greenery—invites the outdoors inside, creating a breezy, vibrant atmosphere. "Tropical interiors feel like an embrace from nature," notes Bercasio. "They’re perfect for those who find joy in life’s little luxuries, like the rustle of palm leaves or the sunlight streaming through an open window." From soft pastel hues to bold botanical prints, tropical design reminds us that love can be colorful, vibrant, and unbound by walls. Your recommended Love Your Space Tokens include: the Mirasol Bar Shelf, Chase Wall Mirror, and Rattan 3-Seater Sofa.
Rustic: A Heartfelt Connection
Rustic interiors are the love language of those who cherish authenticity and tradition. With their warm wood tones, stone accents, and handcrafted elements, rustic homes evoke a sense of history and belonging. "Rustic design is all about texture and soul,” Bercasio shares. “It’s for those who value grounding, earthy spaces where family and friends can gather, and memories are made." For anyone whose ideal evening includes a roaring fire, a hearty meal, and meaningful conversations, rustic interiors embody a heartfelt connection. Your recommended Love Your Space Tokens include: the Bruno Sideboard, Castillan Candle Holder, and Dewey Stool.
Eclectic: A Symphony of Expression
Do you find joy in blending different ideas, colors, and textures? Eclectic interiors are the ultimate canvas for self-expression. This style allows for the layering of cultures, eras, and personal mementos to create a space that’s uniquely yours. "Eclectic homes are like love songs written in many voices," says Bercasio. "They’re for people who thrive on creativity and see beauty in the unexpected. It’s about curating pieces that resonate deeply, regardless of origin or time period." For free spirits and creative souls, eclectic design celebrates individuality and the beauty of love in all its forms. Your recommended Love Your Space Tokens include: the Amon Wooden Dining Table, Upcycled Chair, Benjamin Randolph Dining Chair, and Hera Brown Dining Chair.
Designing with Intent
Just as love requires nurturing, so does your home. By aligning your interior style with your personal "love language," you can create a space that not only looks beautiful but also fosters emotional well-being. "At the end of the day, your home should feel like an extension of your heart,” Bercasio concludes. “It’s where you recharge, celebrate, and share meaningful moments with the people who matter most."
So, what’s your home’s love language? Whether you’re drawn to the minimalist serenity of Scandinavian design or the bold artistry of eclectic interiors, the journey to finding your perfect style is an act of love in itself. After all, home is where the heart truly resides.
